Elf Herself

@elfherself.bsky.social

I'm here for: Fanfic talk, lawsplainers, social media meta, paganism, scifi fandom, ttrpgs, indie publishing, and doc formatting. The doc formatting community is especially weak but I have hopes.

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a wooden salad bowl ca. 1975a teenager at work asked me if i was old enough to have seen a playstation 2 irl and if anyone needs me i will be quietly walking into the seacomputers used to scream out in pain when we connected to the internet, this was a warning and we did not heed itpaul rudd is now the same age as wilford brimley in cocoon

"Pronouns used to be a funny joke, Hank. Until the government tried to tell me I couldn't use them anymore. So now I'm adamant about making sure trans people are gendered right. Not for their sake. But because I'll be damned if the US government is going to tell me what words I can and can't use."

Dale from King of the Hill

I've bounced off LitRPG, possibly because it's mostly written as power fantasy for geeky men. So: Looked for LitRPG with a woman as the main character. Then: looked for LitRPG starring a woman whose personality is not "I will crush all men who cross me." Sigh. Looked for reverse-harem LitRPG.

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apply fanfiction to affected area until symptoms abate. also, a bunny.

New: We found 50 cops who misused Flock cameras and other license-plate readers for personal purposes, often to spy on their girlfriends or ex-wives. He "watched every single move I made. ... Who do you turn the chief of police in to?" wapo.st/3S6rTuo

She left her ex. He secretly tracked her through a network of policing cameras.

Flock’s array of license-plate cameras was built to fight crime. But at least 50 law enforcement officers were charged with or accused of misusing it and other systems.

wapo.st

The TOS being so strict that they control you offsite is the problem; sites like Patreon and Kofi have offsite clauses too. The social criminalization of the suggestion that somewhere you might be doing nsfw is a problem. It's branding a person as obscene and we need consumers to stand up for us

Sam Cole@samleecole.bsky.social · 5d ago

a bunch of popular ASMR artists lost their channels forever this week, after YouTube cited them for violating terms against "sexually gratifying" content: www.404media.co/youtube-asmr...

What I hate about COVID downplayers is… you won okay. In the aftermath of humanity coming together to develop the most crucial vaccines of our lifetime & collectively sacrificing to save lives, we are now less safe, less vaccinated & less empathetic than ever. You won ok. Lay down your swords.

I like this notetaking example. it is a good case of how gender works. Notetaking has never been about producing a transcript. It is a bureaucratic skill in the 20th c. organixarion because it is SENSEMAKING. Those women socialized to take notes? They have been doing men’s metacognition for them

Jennifer Romig @jennifermromig.bsky.social · 4d ago

Notetaking in meetings is tiny case in point - used to be some predictable social assumptions who would do it; now anyone can offer to do ”notetaking” by turning on the AI listener. Further interesting scenario is human recollection / notes (taken by habit by a person) conflict with AI summary

People who protest boycotts are always fascinating. "Well, maybe money's tight and all that, but it's WRONG of you to not-spend it for reasons I object to. If you don't have the RIGHT reasons, you MUST buy this product."

Mom@milph.mom · 4mo ago

Apparently, in his own words, I’m “literally killing” him. I enjoy some problematic content and I don’t suddenly feel like a bad person if someone else personally dislikes it. Sounds like a skill issue. bsky.app/profile/phil...

"The visual and proprioceptive stimulus obtained through the precisely controlled hand movements when using a pen contribute extensively to the brain’s connectivity patterns that promote learning … far more elaborate than when typing on a keyboard."

Frontiers | Handwriting but not typewriting leads to widespread brain connectivity: a high-density EEG study with implications for the classroom

As traditional handwriting is progressively being replaced by digital devices, it is essential to investigate the implications for the human brain. Brain ele...

frontiersin.org

Not even, "kill people for not voting for him." Kill people for living in the same state as people who didn't vote for him. He got millions of votes in California, but those weren't the majority. He's happy to kill off his own voters if they're outnumbered in their states.

Seth Masket@smotus.bsky.social · 7d ago

I've been seeing a lot of people responding to this with "there ought to be a law," but importantly, we haven't needed a law for this sort of thing because no prior president wanted to be known as a leader who would literally kill people in their hour of need for not voting for him

EFF’s @maassive.bsky.social spoke with @cnn.com about the anti-ALPR sentiment sweeping the nation. “Once people start learning about the massive scale of the data that’s being collected and who it’s being accessed by, it starts to freak them out.”

Flock cameras are getting mobbed | CNN

From coast to coast, Americans across the political spectrum have been taking official or vigilante action against the always-on, searchable camera network.

cnn.com

Every so often things like this roll across my screen and I wonder how in the hell I survived it. Then I think, it's still early days, I'm not sure I've survived it yet.

CAREGIVING CAN KILL YOU

64 million adults, or 1 in 4 Americans are caregivers

They have a 63% higher risk of dying over a 4 year period than non-caregivers

1 in 5 dementia caregivers die before the dementia sufferer

Only 20% of caregivers actually get training-contributing to mental overload, suicidal ideation and depression

Caregivers provide 40+ hours of work per week- most in addition to a full time job...

This creates chronic illness, poor sleep, little to no recovery, burnout, and compassion fatigue

Most caregivers report overall dissatisfaction with their lives: this mentality alone is known to shorten lives