tenny ♾️

@herwife.online

🔞 she/her 🏳️‍🌈 late gen-x married lesbian, autist, all-inclusive feminist, good girl and proud stepmama. DMs on for moots ❤️

i'm taking a break from bsky for a while. the more-traumatizing-by-the-day political news that i've worked so hard to curate out of my feeds here just keeps reappearing. I have like 500 & variations of words muted and i'm blocking thousands of accounts via lists. that shit still slips thru. no more.

kinda recently finally figured out that both of my parents are narcissists. i've gone through low/no contact phases with both of them (right now included). about halfway thru an 8-year no contact period with my mom, i got an email asking why i wasn't talking to her. it contained no self-awareness.

Sarah Clarke - Not your doll@damselindystopia.northsky.social · last wk.

When I speak to the people I know who went no contact with their folks about it I hear horrific stories of abuse, of violence and childhood neglect of the most dangerous kinds.

wonder how much of the autism/adhd moral panic that’s built up the past few years is less due to increased awareness and more… COVID/lockdowns disrupted everything so much that people’s masking behaviours fully fell away, and this is what provoked more to seek out answers (and then a diagnosis).

Fuck Newsom. Cis white libs I'm begging you, when you vote don't just pick people who shout things at MAGA on social media. Actions speak louder than words; most of the politicians who rise in popularity because of their wit haven't done a single thing to help the people they claim to serve.

Assigned Media@assignedmedia.org · 2w ago

@rikiwilchins.bsky.social 2026 Sep Governor Gavin Newsom vetoes bill passed which would protect CA providers of gender-affirming care from being extradited to face charges for doing so by another state. www.ebar.com/story/170505...

dear cis people: there are no trans women in the wnba, and no minors are getting sex reassignment surgery. you are being lied to. these are not real issues and they should not be engaged with as serious debate even hypothetically. doing so only helps legitimize harmful lies. don’t be a chump.

election season is such a good time when youre a scapegoated minority thats important enough to decide the result but not important enough that you get a platform to explain why you deserve to live

i'm feeling much better than i was a month ago when my leave started, for sure. getting there slowly. there have been two things that my mind and body can no longer seem to agree on: sleep and food. i've had relatively little of both in the past month, yet i feel, eh, "kind of ok".

pretty much zero here, too. i have my wife and she is enough. i had to explain, again, why travel is unsafe for me this week, and that where i live could become a red state in six weeks. 98% of cis people will never truly care, so they don't ask, and thus they will never know. they don't want to

Lee Hurley@hleehurley.com · 2w ago

Trans folks, how many cis people, that you consider friends in the real world, have reached out to ask if you're OK over the last five years? For me, despite them mostly being queer people or family, that number is zero.

The vitriol directed at me and other members of the trans community for having the audacity to declare our votes are not to be taken for granted. By cisgender people who otherwise have called themselves allies. I wish it weren’t so utterly predictable.

Trans people are the out group that keeps on giving. Y’all are basically the perfect target. It really fucks with them cuz it hits their hatred of women and gay people all at once. Throw in there that they all secretly wanna fuck y’all and it’s perfect storm of chud rage.

insomnia has been so severe lately, i got a prescription for Lunesta. night 1 result: some of the most fragmented, unfulfilling, unsatisfying 3 hours & 51 minutes of sleep i've had in, i dunno, a week? woke at 3am sleep for me right now is an unsolveable puzzle, as it has been for much of my life 🥺

please help, even sharing helps... my mom is talking about forcing me into some kind of christian therapy program for depression and i do NOT want that, they've threatened to put me on the street if i say no, i do not feel safe, please i'm begging... i don't know what else to do

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