Laura Foster

@lauramfoster.bsky.social

Tired middle-aged woman, likes cats. Has strong opinions, may or may not share them. Transitioned in the long-ago years of the early 00s, not that it's any of your business.

"Telling kids about trans identities is propaganda" No, sending me to fucking conversion therapy because you thought my femininity made me gay is propaganda.

Weird shared-BPM moment of the evening: accidentally discovering the Six Flags "old guy with the bus" commercial kind of syncs up with Radiohead's My Iron Lung, if you start the commercial at 3:30 into the song. Hmm, I wonder what else is the same tempo?

Okay, about six months ago someone ran TADC through Google Translate over a dozen times and I'm absolutely dying over here. I am dead. RIP me. This was waaaay ahead of this past month's discourse.

To someone who will probably never read this: happy 57th birthday. I'm sorry things ended so badly between us - one of a long line of wreckage strewn behind me because I don't know how to properly communicate my needs. But it hurt most because I was afraid of how you'd react to the real me so I ran.

One employee was driving to work when the station went off air. He heard the recorded message saying it was over. That’s how he was informed he lost his job. Some found out when other media began reporting it. These employees deserved dignity and respect & Rogers chose not to provide that.

Tarnjit Parmar@tarnjitparmar.bsky.social · 4w ago

Still seething. When I say some of the people at NEWS 1130 worked their fucking asses off I mean it. Years of inadequate pay. Working holidays, early mornings, evenings, overnight, weekends. 24/7 through the pandemic. Fire seasons, snowstorms & floods. Internal politics. For this? Disgraceful.

Apparently CKWX 1130 got shut down and pulled off the air with zero warning due to a "budget cut" bloodbath that axed a bunch of stations today. Un-freaking-believable. They were a 50,000 watt clear-channel station that had been on the air with that callsign since 1927! They're a Vancouver fixture.

Record label of a one-off 78 rpm acetate recorded at CKWX studios in 1952 - "1952 Christmas greetings from the Vancouver Minmores to the Regina Minmores".
Tarnjit Parmar@tarnjitparmar.bsky.social · 4w ago

ARE YOU JOKING?! Dead air on CityNews Vancouver aka NEWS 1130 aka AM1130. Apparently a recorded message said today is the last day 1130 is on air. This is SO SO SO upsetting.

Honestly rate yourself Looks: 7/10 if I put some effort in, 3/10 if I don't Creativity: 8/10 if I can lock in, 3/10 normally Memory: 2/10 Humor: 9/10 Mental health: 2/10 Empathy: 10/10 - can't detach myself from my surroundings. Patience: 9/10 or 1/10 depending on how many spoons left. Memory: 2/10

solient@solient.bsky.social · 4w ago

Honestly rate yourself Looks: 5/10 Creativity: 8/10 Humor: 7/10 Mental health: 1/10 Empathy: 8/10 Patience: 8/10 Memory: 1/10

Knowing next to nothing about TADC aside from internet spoilers and friends' kids, and starting at the end, was a tad confusing. But it has way more in common with the original go-around of Evangelion than I was anticipating. Suddenly I'm dropped in the middle of a full-cast interpersonal crisis.

"Identify as". "Preferred pronouns." "Biological male". "Gender confirmation surgery." Lots more where that came from, all needs to go in the trash. We got taken over by hostile forces about 15 years ago who proceeded to shove delegitimizing terminology in our mouths & told us to shut up & like it.

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The term "transmedicalism" needs to be put on a high shelf until people learn the difference between a random trans person being mean online and a hegemonic power structure restricting your bodily autonomy.

It was too late last night to get riled up about this. But I agree with this thread & have to reiterate: physical sex (whether assigned at birth or not), gender identity & gender expression are *completely* separate axis in a 3 dimensional space. They intersect at different points for each person.

Talia "Pre-Order CALL ME KIMBERLY" Bhatt ⚢@taliabhatt.itch.io · last mo.

We've seen activists, academics, lawyers, and scholars of feminism and gender and transness and queerness all refuse to acknowledge, for various reasons, that TRANS PEOPLE CHANGE SEX, that we are able to navigate society as the sex we transition to, and are punished for daring to change our sex.

There's a lot of distance between "SCOTUS would have ruled against trans people no matter what, so the arguments don't matter in the slightest" and "We should keep conceding that trans women are immutably biologically Male and only seek protections based on nebulous notions of gender expression".

You don't get to do shitty things and hide behind a diagnosis or the threat of self-harm. That's abusive and shitty and makes you an abusive and shitty person. Period. End of. I don't care what your doctor says, if you do those things, you are a shit person. Do better.

The thing about social media age restrictions is that it treats today’s internet as an inevitability we all just have to deal with. The internet (and the WORLD) wasn’t like this until like four dudes were allowed to own & monetize as much tech real estate as they wanted. Fix THAT problem.

Dear subconscious brain: pregnancy dreams are dirty pool when I do not and have never had a uterus, and my 50th birthday is just over the horizon. I should be dreaming about getting ready to send kids off to college, not telling a friend she can feel the baby move. 😭

Saw this thread earlier, so I'll leave this pinned here so I don't lose it again - www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/... Pets are a 10 to 15 year commitment. Children are a minimum of 18, more often decades. They both take a whole lot of effort, money & heartache. NEITHER OF THEM ARE FASHION ACCESSORIES.

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I usually try to explain it like this: picture Jamelle Bouie as Stevie Nicks. Now imagine they're Ukrainian. Doesn't look so much like the SVB bank run was caused by clout sharks getting in the robot now, does it?