I can’t stop thinking about “changing the framing is a tool that’s right there for you to grasp” it’s the best way I’ve ever heard anyone articulate the rage I feel when the left just grants the right’s talking points (in particular, though naturally not limited to, trans kids in sports)
It is, ultimately, damaging your ability to accomplish things long term or to win elections long term because you assume that you can't change the framing of the conversation even though changing the framing is a tool that's right there for you to grasp. It's incompetence. Malpractice.