Jillian

@nogoodwyfe.bsky.social

Chaotic good w/ redneck roots. Medievalist/teacher/PhD candidate/worker/overexplainer/aspiring pícara. Personal account; loud opinions (which is all of them) my own. she/her 📍 North Carolina (in the woods somewhere instead of doing my work)

I don’t have favorite students of course but if I were to have them there would possibly be a noticeable trend over the years where when they leave my office I tend hear them saying things like “wait, where are my keys” and “where am I” and “oh no where is my backpack”

My colleague brought in Rainier this morning to the library. He's a very Good Boy. He went to investigate the breakfast sandwich situation of a nearby student right after this.

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seriously tho what’s a girl gotta do to be allowed to shout research ideas at people who study her conditions. do not make me get another phd after this. it’s actually p messed up that there is no form of patient feedback or focus grouping involved in research direction for most conditions

Jillian@nogoodwyfe.bsky.social · 4d ago

Once again I should be the person who says what ADHD research should be focusing on. Or like you can have a council of us open to any ADHDers with academic training. Too few of us are in the labs studying us bc we’re bad at memorization & thus often STEM and they are not studying the right things 😐

I am irked that apparently it’s widely known that ADHD has an increased prevalence of vertical heterophoria yet apparently no studies of the prevalence of 4th nerve palsy—common congenital cause of vertical heterophoria—in ADHD.

It's telling that men would rather try to invent tech to replace humans' role in caregiving than step up as equal partners in parenting. Telling, that is, in that it shows how financial capitalism and patriarchy work together to dissuade men from doing "unprofitable" labor, like the work of care.

X post from AI industry insider Alvin Sng :

My wife: Can you read our baby a book?
Me: I can just play an audiobook from my phone.
My wife: But then it won't be in your voice.
Me: I can train a voice model.
Parenting hits different when you work in Al.

this is incomprehensible to me. i have been looking at it for so long. i thought criterion must be the name of that car and oat milk the name of that dog, in the pattern of nalgene being the name of that bottle, for a WHILE. why does aristocracy get a truck *and* a tote bag. tag urself

it's an insta ad for a weird personality test that sorts you by like class i guess but it's really confusing. there's a cute dog on it tho

one of the only things that has made me feel slightly better about the existence of menstruation in like 20 years or so is I just now found out both of these little creatures are also subject to it

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If you're willing to sell out trans kids for theoretical votes I have to assume you'd sell out anyone for theoretical votes, so, yes, I do think supporting sports bans means you get not a fucking thing from me.

much like extremely grim (pseudo)leftist power struggles in queer spaces. I both think there probably is a rapidly-increasing visibility-driven pattern of cutting off family that could be iffy in the *minority* of cases, but also know that there is no way we are socially ready to discuss it

one of those historical fact-checking things that doesn’t really matter except it BOTHERS me as a medievalist: it seems more and more apparent that many people think plague was transmitted by rats *because the rats were biting people*

so most bad things ppl encounter are common. the worst thing that ever happens to u happens to 100s the same day. BUT I think I’ve produced a NEW unfortunate event by knocking a dried dyeball fungus off my desk as I dropped a sunstone, causing the gem to land on it & explode dye spores into my rug

Rich chocolate brown powder is scattered across cheap beige apartment carpet and a black synthetic rug, fragments of mushroom exterior shattered around it, a raw almost-luminous pale champagne Oregon sunstone fragment in the middle of the mushroom remains