Janie Larson

@redqueencoder.bsky.social

I own pugs and I make things. Wrote a book on Metal.

This article offers half a dozen reasons why people have stopped having friends and family over, but it ignores the fact that the women who planned parties and kept homes tidy enough for unplanned guests are now working for pay full-time (usually more than 9-5). www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...

The dreadful decline of hosting at home: ‘I feel shame any time a friend comes over’

It used to be quite normal to pop next door for a coffee or invite friends over for dinner. But not any more. What’s behind this change – and just how damaging is it?

theguardian.com

Unpopular opinion but you can’t claim you’re autistic if you have never owned a pet you loved more than life itself. If you’re okay with everything dying on the planet you’re just a sociopath.

Jenny Cohn@jennycohn.bsky.social · 2d ago

“‘There are basically two ways to know you have a future,’” Palantir CEO Alex Karp said. ‘One, you have some vocational training. Or two, you’re neurodivergent.’” 3/25/26 share.google/BSpEdevJ0wx9...

It's telling that men would rather try to invent tech to replace humans' role in caregiving than step up as equal partners in parenting. Telling, that is, in that it shows how financial capitalism and patriarchy work together to dissuade men from doing "unprofitable" labor, like the work of care.

X post from AI industry insider Alvin Sng :

My wife: Can you read our baby a book?
Me: I can just play an audiobook from my phone.
My wife: But then it won't be in your voice.
Me: I can train a voice model.
Parenting hits different when you work in Al.

I haven’t been doing my art for almost a year because of health issues. I am having trouble getting into a learning rhythm with my art the way I could with programming. I had books I could work through to learn code. I have videos that are boring for art that I have trouble paying attention to. 😭

I’m reading through the takes on the Maine senate debate and I’m realizing that election night next month is going to be torture around staying up all night to see if there’s a possibility we might not get fucked. 😭

I was going to make Cajun chicken pasta for dinner but the chicken went bad. We have ground beef so I am going to make chili with cornbread. I am going to dig up some molded bakeware I have been accumulating for years for the cornbread.

I got an invite to celebrate the 125th birthday of the college school newspaper I got fired from because I wouldn’t fabricate a story to take up space they had to be filled. I don’t think I will be going to that…

I’m mildly irritated by the national media focus on just the Senate races in the midterms. We have a gubernatorial race that is pivotal to ensuring we can have free and fair elections and no one gives a shit.

Calling all NYC artists — painters, filmmakers, poets, musicians and more! Did you know our city provides grants to support your work every year? And this year, we're DOUBLING the amount — from $5,000 up to $10,000 per artist! Deadlines are approaching fast — apply today at nyc.gov/artistgrants.

With this monopolized media empire comes not just size but unprecedented power. The power to throw workers under the bus. The power to price-gouge because consumers have few alternatives. The power to decide which stories get told, but more importantly, which stories DON'T get told.

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