Rachel Walens

@rwalens.bsky.social

Film & TV Development Executive/Producer. Gamer, armchair detective, lover of all things 1980s. She/her. Opinions my own.

I made dinner for my abuser a bunch of times. You have to play nice while you're planning your escape so you don't get dead. Max Miller is a textbook abuser.

In all my years in this business I have never met anyone better at both meticulous research and eagle-eyed fraud detection than @riodylan.bsky.social If you are interested in film/TV/books, or true crime, I highly recommend giving her a follow.

Rio Dylan Hernandez@riodylan.bsky.social · 6d ago

So do you remember my recent post of 2 days ago about the book that sold in a 2-book deal that I felt sure was #AI and did a LONNNNG post about 2 days ago? WELL WELL FUCKING WELL and does no one do any due diligence 😒 #books

FWIW, Meta was fully aware of how these glasses would primarily be used. The glasses were designed to erase consent, and that is why they exist. Anything that they do that suggests they want to ameliorate this use is an attempt to win the PR battle and manipulate public opinion.

Meta Desperately Trying to Ban Creeps Misusing Its AI "Pervert Glasses"

Meta is vowing to crack down on creeps misusing its Ray Ban smart glasses. Whether it will be enough to regain trust remains to be seen.

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A friend of mine's father died Sunday. They live in another city so I called a restaurant there to ask for food to be delivered to the family. I explained the circumstances. They delivered my order -- AND added more food. It touched me. There are people out there doing good things without headlines.

In my first story with Kelley French for @notus.com, I spoke to the woman pictured in the Metro photo on July 4. She didn't know she went viral. Her family wants people to know their difficult reality. Please take some time with our story today www.notus.org/metro/viral-...

The Woman in the Photo Wanted to Be Alone. Instead, She Went Viral.

America saw what it wanted to see on the face of its newest icon. And everyone saw it wrong.

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“But the bigger problem is how much of the media of ‘the left’ is dominated by men who appear to have no understanding of sexual abuse or intimate partner violence, but do have a pretty hefty sexist streak that they either aren’t aware of or don’t care to remedy.” YES @juliedicaro.bsky.social

We have an even bigger problem than Graham Platner

The candidate's rise and fall perfectly illustrates the sexism in lefty media

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Apropos of nothing in particular, thinking today about how psychologist/author Martha Stout says one of the most recognizable signs of a sociopath is someone who habitually behaves badly and then invites you to see them as the victim.

Most abusers are not abusive all the time. They can be charming and charismatic and can present as devoted, especially when in front of witnesses. Victims often tell ourselves that the caring persona is the *real* person and the abuse is some atypical behavior that will stop if we are loving enough.

Kat Tenbarge@kattenbarge.bsky.social · 4w ago

There are still tons of people who ask why victims stay in abusive relationships and use that line of thinking to attack and undermine the credibility of victims. The actual mechanism of coercive control is still so misunderstood by the public—a victim staying actually makes perfect sense.

When people say "innocent until proven guilty," I hope they know that the vast vast vast majority of rapists and abusers are never "proven guilty." The status quo is that there is no due process for victims. If you require a conviction to believe victims, you're siding with perpetrators.