sassenach

@samasochism.bsky.social

i like drone music and expressionist art | she/her but they if you're mad at me | 18+, occasionally nsfw

the internet has the magical radicalizing potential to reveal to people that Sex Stuff is actually Normal Stuff and that it isn't actually weird for it to share a space with Other Stuff. rich freaks have been scrambling to retube this toothpaste for decades and must not be allowed to succeed

you try to log off fetlife in disgust. a fully voice acted pop up asks you to confirm: "Please don't go. The subs need you. They look up to you."

i have been so deeply stressed about not getting things done that i have ended up robbing myself of countless joys and the ability to actually get a bunch of things done in the interim. doubted myself so much that i think my skills regressed in some ways and i really know what to do

You have opportunity after opportunity to create something lovely for yourself or others. Every moment you choose to sit and think about horrors beyond your control, every time you make the choice to look for more and more details about just HOW bad... you are turning away from those opportunities.

"writing code to solve a problem" used to have "understanding the problem" as a prerequisite. but vibecoding allows solution-shaped objects to be produced without any of the hard-won understanding. beware of solution-shaped objects.

"i want to transition, but i'm worried i'm not feminine enough" fool that you are, you have internalised liberal ontology and all the hierarchical assumptions it entails. you have forgotten that the only difference between wanting to be something and being it is doing it.

transness is a gift. i need every trans woman to understand that by nature of their existence they have been blessed with the ability to pluck the strands of fate with their hands if they choose to. it is not always easy and it is not without hardship but every trans woman is capable of greatness.

Every trans woman who is prettier and/or more traditionally woman-shaped than me is an ungrateful genetic lottery winner who has no idea what it’s like to really be trans, and of course every trans woman less pretty or traditionally woman-shaped than me is simply a slob who’s not trying hard enough

Jesus is the apotheosis of a pain slut. Can you imagine being publicly beaten and humiliated so hard people are still talking about it 2000 years later? And we know it was consensual, too, because he's god and all that. An all time kinkster.

possibilities: -messenger birds -hire someone to put your posts on flyers around town -go to a place where other people are and use your human mouth and ears to communicate verbally

Translesbians love nun aesthetics so much because we too desire to wear black all day, be amongst our own, and debate minutae day in day out with people who believe 95% of the same things we do

go be messy & communicate as clearly as you can. go be beautiful & human & honest. go do the work to start making besties. i know it is scary. the friends you want to spend time with won’t judge you for feeling uncertain & embracing life anyway.