Maddie Ouranía

@maddiequestions.bsky.social

she/her/kallai 18+ Aphrodite's favorite daughter ⚢

if you’re a dude thinking “i’ve never done anything disgusting” (citations needed) then you’ve more than likely sat there quietly while your friend did something disgusting or bragged about doing something disgusting. you cannot absolve yourself.

i hope that men notice how whenever a rape story gets widespread coverage, women use it as an opportunity to vent about how fucking disgusting we think many of you are and how many have made our lives measurably worse, and take a few moments to deeply process that.

(Even then, despite trans athletes being allowed in the Olympics for nearly two decades, no trans woman competing in women's categories ever won a medal, and the overall number of trans women who have won any sports competitions is anomalously low)

And this is where many supposed allies usually falter. It's easy to say flagrant, accelerating discrimination is bad. It's far harder to accept that one's preconceptions about transitioning are false, and it's really worthwhile to hammer home that they are indeed false.

Trans athletes should be accepted, and should be able to win and succeed just like any other athletes, and a trans athlete winning every so often is not evidence that there's an underlying truth in banning them.

Discrimination against us isn't just bad because the hypothetical issue is tiny. The entire basis people have for believing it is an issue is false. Plenty of people think the bans are too discriminatory but that they are based in "common sense", and that's wrong, and should be pushed back against.

I mean, the science of it is worth getting into. These bans have no scientific backing. Research has mostly failed to show that trans athletes have any real aggregate advantages after a couple years on HRT. If there *were* a large number of trans athletes it wouldn't make the bans correct, either.

perhaps one day this planet will come to reckon with how 5,000 years of so-called "human civilization" is built on the rape and murder of countless nameless women. when all institutions are fraternities, all fraternities need to be burned down. all "brotherhoods" annihilated for people to be free.

I’m so sick of this Qeue the “not all men” rebuttal And to that I say, it’s every man that watches this rapist; plays on the same, or opposite, team; is a booster for the school; send your kids to this school; etc etc Until all the enablers finally say enough, I fear nothing will change

Katie Phang@katiephang.bsky.social · 7h ago

A case that isn’t getting the headlines it deserves: an LSU student was raped by an LSU football player. He admitted it, but the school is still letting him play football. How multiple systems have failed this young woman & why she went public to get the help she needs: youtu.be/LihN7hsNKnw?...

It’s really great seeing a bunch of cis people say “that’s not transphobia” while a trans woman is misgendered and quote dunked over and over. Not to mention the power dynamics at play, a journalist doing this to a tiny account that disagrees is gross.

Please don't give the DA reopening the Cornell case any cookies. District Attorney Matthew Van Houten all but called Jane Doe a liar today. He said that in Doe's initial statement, she described "her participation in drug use and sexual conduct as voluntary, conscious, and consensual.” CONSENSUAL

It’s earlier than I expected to announce this, but we’re in the process of founding an organization to build cross-generational solidarity on campus sexual violence. It’s called the Survivor Alumni Network. And if you want updates from us when we are ready to go public, you can stay in touch here:

Survivor Alumni Network

Join a national survivor network. Access free Title IX resources, peer mentorship, and Campus Response Teams dedicated to campus safety reform.

survivoralumninetwork.org

And honestly, do it for you too. Solidarity heals the wounds of institutional betrayal. It genuinely helps to offer a survivor the things you never got. You don’t have to do it online. Or any other public forum. But you should talk to young people about sexual violence.

I’m seeing a lot of posts from older women about how they won’t talk or think about Cornell because it’s too painful or the problem is too big to solve. I’m urging you all to remember how you felt as a college student when older women said that to you. Don’t turn your back on the next generation.

This. When Andrea Dworkin said rape is the weapon that all men use to control all women, she wasn't saying all men rape. She was saying 1. Non-raping men permit rape to be as common as it is 2. Raping and non-raping men use the fear of "other" men to gain "good guy" status a short thread...

Christopher Golden@cgolden.bsky.social · 14h ago

*Trigger Warning*As hideous as the Cornell 7 case is, it's even more horrifying that the man who orchestrated it was the supposed friend of the victim, and he texted an *invitation* to this 7-hour gang rape to a group text and not a single member of that chat did anything to intervene.