if you’re a dude thinking “i’ve never done anything disgusting” (citations needed) then you’ve more than likely sat there quietly while your friend did something disgusting or bragged about doing something disgusting. you cannot absolve yourself.
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i hope that men notice how whenever a rape story gets widespread coverage, women use it as an opportunity to vent about how fucking disgusting we think many of you are and how many have made our lives measurably worse, and take a few moments to deeply process that.
The word you're looking for is "misogynistic", not "homosexual".
There needs to be more writing on how homosexual, in the sense of man-loving, the modern conservative man actually is. They idolize masculine figures in sports, war, and film and only seem to want women around to make more of themselves.
You have reached an auto "Eat Dog Shit, You Fucking Sexist Ghoul" message.
"Making day care free, while offering nothing to stay-at-home parents, appeals to the educated, urban, affluent voters who have come to make up the Democratic base, but not to the electorate at large," Marc Novicoff argues:
I will poke @ari4ohio.bsky.social for anything else I may have mentioned. Reminder, I am using my first amendment rights as a citizen to speak of my own accord as a transgender ohioan, not as a member of the Pride Caucus Steering Committie or any organization.
Not only were we basically blamed for "making news" (we didn't, we responded) and told we are to get dems elected... We were also asked why we weren't spending more time attacking republicans. In short, to me, the ODP's stance is, "Hush, get in line, do as you're told."
Also, it very much is what we have said it was. What @erininthemorning.com and @esqueer.net have said it was. It is very much the stance of the ODP that once a candidate has won a primary, we should not be criticising them at all. We were also told we didn't need to be making news.
Leadership from ODP told us in our meeting today, our job is to elect candidates. Yup. That's it. "You are the party." As Caucuses, the Pride and Progressive Caucus were told to our faces... that all that matters is getting Dems in to office. Not, advocating for our constituents.
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(Even then, despite trans athletes being allowed in the Olympics for nearly two decades, no trans woman competing in women's categories ever won a medal, and the overall number of trans women who have won any sports competitions is anomalously low)
And this is where many supposed allies usually falter. It's easy to say flagrant, accelerating discrimination is bad. It's far harder to accept that one's preconceptions about transitioning are false, and it's really worthwhile to hammer home that they are indeed false.
Trans athletes should be accepted, and should be able to win and succeed just like any other athletes, and a trans athlete winning every so often is not evidence that there's an underlying truth in banning them.
Discrimination against us isn't just bad because the hypothetical issue is tiny. The entire basis people have for believing it is an issue is false. Plenty of people think the bans are too discriminatory but that they are based in "common sense", and that's wrong, and should be pushed back against.
I mean, the science of it is worth getting into. These bans have no scientific backing. Research has mostly failed to show that trans athletes have any real aggregate advantages after a couple years on HRT. If there *were* a large number of trans athletes it wouldn't make the bans correct, either.
perhaps one day this planet will come to reckon with how 5,000 years of so-called "human civilization" is built on the rape and murder of countless nameless women. when all institutions are fraternities, all fraternities need to be burned down. all "brotherhoods" annihilated for people to be free.
I’m so sick of this Qeue the “not all men” rebuttal And to that I say, it’s every man that watches this rapist; plays on the same, or opposite, team; is a booster for the school; send your kids to this school; etc etc Until all the enablers finally say enough, I fear nothing will change
A case that isn’t getting the headlines it deserves: an LSU student was raped by an LSU football player. He admitted it, but the school is still letting him play football. How multiple systems have failed this young woman & why she went public to get the help she needs: youtu.be/LihN7hsNKnw?...
To then hide behind her own marginalized identity. Just goes to show, you are not immune from bigotry if you’re a marginalized person.
It’s really great seeing a bunch of cis people say “that’s not transphobia” while a trans woman is misgendered and quote dunked over and over. Not to mention the power dynamics at play, a journalist doing this to a tiny account that disagrees is gross.
Please don't give the DA reopening the Cornell case any cookies. District Attorney Matthew Van Houten all but called Jane Doe a liar today. He said that in Doe's initial statement, she described "her participation in drug use and sexual conduct as voluntary, conscious, and consensual.” CONSENSUAL
Most of the people that got severely ill where children under 5 I don’t know what to do about parents who feed their kids raw milk or cheese, but I feel like we should do something
Cheese sold nationwide recalled after E. coli sickens 13
So yeah, if you suppress all knowledge of queerness, then on some level, you do end up with fewer openly queer people. You get to have more miserable, self-hating stunted people instead. YAY YOU WIN. If you just want us gone, then yeah, that's a victory condition.
The "social contagion" thing drives me screaming angry. When I was young I had no clue trans ppl existed. I'd never met anyone trans. I saw cruel caricatures in pop culture occasionally. When I realized trans was a thing someone could be, it hit like a lightning bolt. My life felt newly possible.
Got a new video for you. It's ostensibly about Marvel's Wolverine, but it's more akin to a series of sharp kicks aimed at Sony's bollocks. youtu.be/5UQTABnglQQ
Sony's Wolverine
YouTube video by Stephanie Sterling
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It’s earlier than I expected to announce this, but we’re in the process of founding an organization to build cross-generational solidarity on campus sexual violence. It’s called the Survivor Alumni Network. And if you want updates from us when we are ready to go public, you can stay in touch here:
Survivor Alumni Network
Join a national survivor network. Access free Title IX resources, peer mentorship, and Campus Response Teams dedicated to campus safety reform.
survivoralumninetwork.org
And honestly, do it for you too. Solidarity heals the wounds of institutional betrayal. It genuinely helps to offer a survivor the things you never got. You don’t have to do it online. Or any other public forum. But you should talk to young people about sexual violence.
I’m seeing a lot of posts from older women about how they won’t talk or think about Cornell because it’s too painful or the problem is too big to solve. I’m urging you all to remember how you felt as a college student when older women said that to you. Don’t turn your back on the next generation.
This. When Andrea Dworkin said rape is the weapon that all men use to control all women, she wasn't saying all men rape. She was saying 1. Non-raping men permit rape to be as common as it is 2. Raping and non-raping men use the fear of "other" men to gain "good guy" status a short thread...
*Trigger Warning*As hideous as the Cornell 7 case is, it's even more horrifying that the man who orchestrated it was the supposed friend of the victim, and he texted an *invitation* to this 7-hour gang rape to a group text and not a single member of that chat did anything to intervene.
If you're so innocent, if women trust you, then support them instead of whining about how innocent you are.