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[REDACTED] dumbass, bi-disaster, and comic enthusiast NSFW at times, PFP by whipbogard She/Her, 28

Discomfort is an essential part of growth and wouldn’t it be so embarrassing to be the exact same person thirty years from now, in a totally different world, because you were so averse to discomfort?

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Once you start noticing how the incapacity to handle discomfort affects how people live their lives it's actually pretty shocking how it ruins pretty much every conceivable aspect of existence. Interpersonal relationships, romantic and platonic. Career and education opportunities. Your politics Your willingness to go anywhere. The kind of food you eat. The kind of art you expose yourself to and your ability to read it. It's never just one thing, it touches everything, and once you notice it it's like suddenly being able to see germs or something. Just this horrific catastrophe people look at you askance for screaming about. As I grow older and see what became of my friends and peers who could not learn to handle discomfort, the more I'm like. This is a genuine societal issue
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Increasing my discomfort tolerance has also been one of the greatest assets to improving my mental health.

now if we're talking about making ASSUMPTIONS about the self. hanging desperately onto INCORRECT OPINIONS of the self. that's another story. love when a guy thinks he knows exactly what that says about him based on little to no evidence

one of the quickest he would not fucking say thats to me is any variation on "he wonders what it says about him that [blank]". Very few blorbos of mine would be caught dead cogently introspecting

again i am just not that interested in debating whether human rights should theoretically extend to robots and ai when we currently don't even extend them to all humans

Something lost when we moved away from long seasons of episodic television episodes is how many different genres you can fit in there. Sometimes Star Trek is Shakespearen. Sometimes Buffy is Muppets. Sometimes Murder She Wrote is, apparently, a gritty cold war thriller

Imagine being talented and beautiful and rich and famous and still the most noteworthy thing about you is how good a person you are.

Anyway a lot of people do not know how to "read" or parse Dolly, a deeply political person, because she had big hair & reveled in high femme Southern presentation & had rhetorical skills that allowed her to deflect & defuse every attempt to make her seem stupid. She understood the rule book &

Lrt it's so crazy to see people call Dolly "neutral" on politics/The Culture War when she was, in all the ways that mattered, our highest-profile and possibly only truly leftist rich person