Vaila

@vaila.bsky.social

Autistic. Queer. Tired. Unpaid carer. Chronic pain haver. Interests: nature, photography, reading, languages inc BSL, queer history. (Alt text. Profile pic is bird’s eye view of wellies standing on red sand beach. Header is blue sky with cloud.)

“Harmful medical experiences, stigma, misinformation and lack of transparency have all made it hard to talk about being intersex, difficult to access safe, informed and accessible services, and hard to collect data on the experiences and needs of adults with innate variations. This needs to change.”

What people with intersex traits want you to know

People born with variations of sex characteristics have bodies that are a little different to social and medical expectations.

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some studies suggest that 25% of Autistic adults attempt suicide 1 in 4 Diagnosis of autism in adults is not attention-seeking or trend It’s the context we need to do more than just survive When you know a risk, you can lower it, and just by knowing more about ideation It’s suicide prevention

it’s me, aslynn@aslynnromano.com · 2y ago

"Diagnosis is inaccessible and expensive...Autistic adults are more likely to have chronic illness and mental health conditions...Suicide is one of the leading causes of premature death in people with autism. Questioning diagnosis denies the data and the difficulties that autistic people live with."

No, BBC news platforming bloody John Curtice again, the Aberdeen South result is not Scotland's verdict on transition away from oil, it's the verdict of the single geographical group of people most personally invested in continuing the oil industry.

TEENY TINY TOAD ALERT!!!!! It was so small I thought it was a little jumping spider. But I was right next to the creek where the toads mate so I looked more carefully. I can not believe I actually got a decent photo. It was less than a centimeter from nose to butt & ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE!!! #herps 🌿

A close up photo of a tiny little brown toad on the ground. It's kind of lumpy and unformed looking and must have just emerged from the water.

Feeling really exhausted by bullshit this morning. All the decades of misinformation and misdirection on migration. The endless lies about trans people. Professors of politics still pretending they can't understand why people hate Starmer so much... This stuff is so pervasive, and SO wearying. 😖

"Which is to say it was a perfectly normal morning, no better or worse than any parent of any kid might have. Normal is not what we would have predicted in those first 24 hours. But normal is what we have." This is one of two messages on this. I wrote about #DownSyndrome and prenatal testing.

Perry: An influencer couple had an abortion, then spread misinformation about Down syndrome

Last week, YouTuber Jesse Ridgway (McJuggerNuggets) and his wife Ashley announced she had an abortion earlier in the week after a prenatal diagnosis of Down's. But the debate that followed was full of...

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"The second: In our lives together, in fact, pretty much the only times that Down syndrome becomes a real problem, let alone a crisis, is when we encounter a system not designed to support our lives. To fix the ableist systems and ideologies everywhere, that’s the work."

“The fact that Budapest Pride – and hopefully Pécs Pride – can now take place freely, is a shared success for everyone who has spoken out on this case.” Excellent news from Hungary. Pride remains as important as ever. We need to organise so all LGBTQ+ folks can thrive with safety and freedom. 🇭🇺🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

Hungary: Dropping of charges against organisers of Budapest and Pécs Pride a testament to the power of solidarity

JOINT PRESS RELEASE: AMNESTY INTERNATIONAL HUNGARY, HATTER SOCIETY, HUNGARIAN HELSKINI COMMITTEE & HUNGARIAN CIVIL LIBERTIES UNION The courage of

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The EHRC code of practice frames appearance based gendered assumptions i.e. assumptions around what are masculine and feminine traits at the centre of how you determine biological sex. It's not just that the code is segregationist and harmful to trans people. It is also hideously patriarchal.