Sasha Kielman (she/her/hers) 🦋

@sashakielman.bsky.social

Attorney & writer (Codex, Mighty Pens, RFFA). Stories available in The Fairtales, CRIMSON BONES, UNLEASHED: SET YOUR MONSTER FREE, WICKEDNESS AND WONDER, & OF LOVE AND DRAGONS. https://sashakielman.com

I promise you, the current success of romantasy and its many fun tropes is not hurting male authors, who are continuing to male author right along, often being incredibly awesome in the process (HMU if you need recommendations). Even if it were, male authors have such a MOUNTAIN of backlist...

If y'all are out there, putting words down, doing edits, sending in submissions, getting critiques, revising queries, and more... quick reminder: *Rejection* DOES NOT MEAN you are a bad writer!!! Keep. Going. ❤️‍🔥

What's weird to me is, where did the hunger for knowledge go? Where did curiosity go? Where did enjoying the journey go? Where did shame go? So much of the world is in a race to mediocrity and people don't care. They don't want to learn or grow. They don't want to master things. It's bizarre.

A5: Just a few small things: -Celebrate other people's work! A repost doesn't cost anything, and we are the algorithm, here. -Please use alt-text in all your images! Lots of ppl use it, & it's good for all of us. -Let me know if you have ARC signups anywhere 👀 #WeeknightWriters

Weeknight Writers@weeknightwriters.bsky.social · 2w ago

Q5: What can we, the Weeknight Writers community, do in the next week to make your life a little more pleasant? #WeeknightWriters

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What can we do in the next week to make things a little more pleasant for you?”

As anyone in publishing will tell you, women do not resist reading books by men, but men will often dismiss books by women. This is not a publishing problem or a failure to target men. It's a misogyny problem.

Always appreciate @charliejane.bsky.social 's writing (All The Birds In The Sky is a favorite book), and her advice on writing is always great (I need to read: Never Say You Can't Survive: How to Get Through Hard Times by Making Up Stories) Couldn't agree more with this take on "happy cozy scenes."

I would even argue that if you are writing scenes of conflict, you have more of a duty to show that something has meaningfully changed in each scene.

My personal feeling is that if characters are simply having a nice time and at the end of the scene you have a sense that they've gotten grown closer together, that's exciting in its own right. In a happy cozy scene, nothing needs to have "changed" other than the characters’ growing rapport — but when I read a scene of conflict in which nothing has changed by the end, except maybe that the characters are slightly more annoyed with each other than they were when the scene started, I get bored and frustrated. Part of this is just that meaningless conflict is unpleasant and not fun to read about. Nastiness needs to justify its existence, in my mind, whereas niceness can simply exist.

all my friends should be unemployed and have all the time in the world while also mysteriously having enough money to live comfortably