Amanda Wallwin

@wallwin.bsky.social

Recovering state legislative staffer, fighter for justice, mom, school board member, abortion advocate, bisexual shitposter, #actuallyautistic, Jeopardy champ. All these things are not without their meanings. 🐋 she/they 🏡 in Hudson Valley, ❤️ in Chicago

According to the most rigorous studies, 10.8% of college men perpetrate at least one rape before graduation. This statistic always comes to mind when I see men in power reacting with disgust to the idea that one of their peers could face even a shred of accountability.

i can all but guarantee you there are other women out there who have been sick to their stomachs for 24 straight hours praying that this will be enough. hoping like hell they won't have to rustle up their own traumas for an angry, hateful audience

Not lost on me that the high profile "they were right, and i fucked up" apologies have come from women (goldberg, klein) and not from the podbros who are arguably more responsible for this bugfuck mess than anyone else other than the candidate himself.

When someone says, “The timing is suspect” about a victim of rape or sexual assault coming forward when the perpetrator is on the cusp of grasping power or notoriety, they are telling you they have not cared enough about sexual violence to have learned why that pattern exists.

Graham Platner was "vetted" by Dan Moraff, a man kicked out of Pittsburgh DSA for sexual assault. You cannot have rapists in your tent because they will surround themselves with people who are also abusers or enablers, so they get away with more abuse. There are too many examples of this.

Queer Satanic@queersatanic.com · 6mo ago

the anarchist you know defending Chomsky right now despite all we know about Chomsky’s ties to Epstein is telling you he absolutely will do the same for his domestic abuser buddy at the distro or the radical bookshop owner who sexually harasses employees or the FNB organizer who rapes volunteers…

Believe Women is an epistemological stance. It doesn't mean you assume that every single woman is telling the truth and women never lie. It means you understand that in the system that we exist in, there's much more risk and pain for women coming forward about abuse than there is anything to gain.

unfriendly reminder that what killed #metoo was a woman coming forward with sexual assault allegations against biden and the entire lib media circling the wagons to protect him. when we see the exact same thing play out with platner know it's because he's just as protected by the establishment

Reminder that accusers don’t actually “press charges,” that’s a choice made by prosecutors, that it is far from a sure bet that a prosecutor will do so even if that’s what a survivor wants and that most rape survivors choose not to report because of the legal system’s hostility to survivors.

🇺🇸Jackie S.🇺🇦🙏4️⃣☮️@kaysgramma.bsky.social · last mo.

Sorry, but this is getting ridiculous Platner has been in the news for months. Why didn’t this come up soon? Platner should call on his accuser to press charges. If true, let him rot in prison. Republicans not only demand criminal charges, they ignore them when their candidate is found liable

One of my hardest-won political lessons is that it’s never, ever worth it to treat ppl as ~indispensable no matter what they do~ —bc we *see* the contributions & potential of the abusive men & we don’t get to see that in the women they drive out. We never actually get to know what we’ve squandered

Marisa Kabas@marisakabas.bsky.social · last mo.

this dynamic described by jenny racicot is, as i understand it, very common among progressive women in maine. they’ve been put in an impossible position and feel like they’re tanking platner’s campaign when in reality he did that on his own by being a violent and reckless person.

“One of the reasons I didn’t come forward sooner was, the huge moral conflict that I had between supporting his politics, but not supporting him as a person,” she said. “I just want the truth out there. I just want people to have a whole scope of who he is as a person.”

better people that the Maine Dems could nominate: rusty from tabs; my mother in law, who spends a couple of weeks in maine in the summer; the hotel from newhart (pretty sure that was in maine); bigfoot, probably?

I am so fucking tired of woman having to stand on a national stage and tear their hearts open and pour their trauma out in front of the entire country. And still not be believed. Or be told it doesn’t matter because we need her assaulter. I’m so tired of it.

the high-profile people who supported platner ignored the nazi tattoo, so a bunch of women came forward to report sketchy behavior, which they also ignored, until this woman had to come forward and tell her full story. i hope they do some reflecting on how and why they put her in that position

Jenny Racicot, matter-of-factly, on CNN: "I've thrown up three times today." If Platner had dropped out, or been pushed out, when the last round of DV allegations dropped, she wouldn't be in this position today. That she is, is on him and his supporters.

Woman accuses Graham Platner of rape in 2021, he denies it | CNN Politics

In an exclusive interview with CNN’s Jake Tapper on Monday Jenny Racicot said that Graham Platner, the Democratic nominee for US Senate in Maine, entered her home without permission and raped her when...

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Abusers sabotage their own agenda and betray those who share it while placing the burden on victims to come forward and be punished, blamed, shamed, disbelieved, or not come forward and suffer in silence and let an abuser hold power. Abusers demonstrate radical selfishness.

Marisa Kabas@marisakabas.bsky.social · last mo.

this dynamic described by jenny racicot is, as i understand it, very common among progressive women in maine. they’ve been put in an impossible position and feel like they’re tanking platner’s campaign when in reality he did that on his own by being a violent and reckless person.

“One of the reasons I didn’t come forward sooner was, the huge moral conflict that I had between supporting his politics, but not supporting him as a person,” she said. “I just want the truth out there. I just want people to have a whole scope of who he is as a person.”

Part of being a perfect victim when you’ve been assaulted by a politician is sharing your story in the exact right way at a time most beneficial for ~politics~ It’s beyond fucked up that we continue to put this responsibility on victims and survivors.

the abbot of unreason (an archaeologist)@merovingians.bsky.social · last mo.

Jenny Radicot is a goddamn hero for coming forward now, when there was still a way out. I don't want to hear anything to the contrary.

The rise and (hopefully) fall of Platner should be a time for the left to reflect on the ways sexual violence intersects with the oppression of other marginalized groups to corrode democracy. It’s never just a totenkopf tattoo. It’s never just reddit posts. It’s never just one woman.

here is what i think: we're not consumers or spectators, we are participants with agency. you should not hope that democrats will do anything. you must work to force them to do the right thing. the odds are long, but we are far from the first americans to face long odds. we will win.

jamelle@jamellebouie.net · last mo.

you know, when someone says something like "these are the things that need to be done to avert disaster" and your response is "you think democrats will do that?!?" all you're telling me is that you think politics is a spectator sport