Monique Laban

@moniquelaban.bsky.social

Everywhere else I’m endorphinique. I write. https://www.moniquelaban.com

Reality for Palestinians is like how Hollywood's science fiction dystopias depict an alien invasion. We're not supposed to feel sympathy for alien invaders. Why are we supposed to feel sympathy for Israel? Or the United States, for that matter, which does exactly the same thing to many countries.

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also, even if you have a will, please update it periodically. my grandfather has had two more grandchildren since he updated his and we KNOW emotionally that he would have wanted us all to be in there equally, but it's complicated to get that on paper after somebody has been diagnosed as incompetent

Keezy Young🌼@keezyyoung.bsky.social · 2d ago

if I can offer an advice it's that everyone should make advanced directives--now, asap, even if you're young--about what you would want at end of life, in terms of medical care, funeral stuff. like it's okay if you end up changing it over time but just leave some kind of guide for your loved ones

If you say you wanna see estrogen sold in vending machines then everyone assumes you're joking, but in a bunch of countries you can legit just buy estrogen at regular normal pharmacies without a prescription or anything and it's fine. It's nbd. It causes zero problems. It isn't even newsworthy.

still holding onto this feeling a month later to get through stressful times. it could be worse. i could gently ask the person i'm assisting that she do more of her job instead of giving it to me and she could answer "oh yeah i was an assistant once time management was so hard for me too"

Monique Laban@moniquelaban.bsky.social · 3w ago

what's been nice about leaving a junior level in a toxic industry and working at a place where all my colleagues consider each other equals is that, when micromanaging and fake deadlines are removed, you no longer have to answer the worst people's emails first and enable their entitlement

If you haven't already, can you please take a minute to sign this demand for a public inquiry into the role of the media in Prof. Arday's death? Thanks so much. Jason Arday: Demand a public inquiry now | Good Law Project share.google/yglZz4Gw42RJ...

Jason Arday: Demand a public inquiry now | Good Law Project

Commission an immediate public inquiry into how to ensure a responsible press given its contribution to Dr Arday’s tragic death.

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American media's obsession with elite colleges that educate a tiny fraction of the country makes sense when you understand it's the underpinning of our class system (which we pretend we don't have).

Hot tip for art thieves: find buyers before you steal art! Or else you'll steal it, find that no collectors are stupid enough to buy hot masterpieces, and live in a state of increasing state of panic before a sting operation catches your ass. Today's case in point: www.nytimes.com/2026/08/14/w...

Five Arrested in Connection to Stolen Works by Cézanne, Renoir and Matisse, Prosecutors Say

The Italian military police said that art collectively valued at more than $10 million had been found five months after being taken in a nighttime heist near Parma.

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I think the very reasonable rule "center those most marginalized" gets interpreted in Discourse circles as "you have to be the most marginalized person in the room to be worth hearing," and that's a quick hop, skip and a jump to ignoring or dismissing other people's abuse so you can be first in line

This parallels something I've been thinking about men who are into "looksmaxxing:" They say they do it to get women, but ugly guys get gfs all the time. What the looksmaxxers want is to be SO hot that they can get women _easily_, without putting forth effort, care, or consideration.

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Reading Corey Doctorow’s new book on AI and in a book full of banger one-liners, so far this is my favorite:
“Practically everyone who falls for the AI hype is dreaming of getting a human need fulfilled without having to extend moral consideration.”

Plenty to reflect about re: the Arday affair, but I'm going to repeat this one thing. The playbook the right used here is effective even though it's not especially sophisticated, as it relies on the audience to do the dirty work. I've been calling it "Trojan horse propaganda", let's go with that. 1/

Stavros Halkias: I don't wanna do the both sides bullshit because it's not true. One side is worse than the other, objectively speaking. One side is disappearing people and one side wants children to have healthcare. A lot of stand up comics happened to have some of the dumbest opinions on Earth

We have almost entered Eating a Big Bowl of Tomatoes, Nectarines, Basil, and Buratta for Dinner season! You will surely not regret Eating a Big Bowl of Tomatoes, Nectarines, Basil, and Buratta for Dinner!!

Big Bowl of Tomatoes, Nectarines, Basil, and Buratta

FRIENDS IN THE NYC AREA: Okay, this is a tough one, but please bear with me. My wife's lifelong friend has stage 4 pancreatic cancer and is desperately seeking a home for his two cats when that time comes. The elder, Wally, is something like 13 years old and DELIGHTFULLY dim. The younger, Doris,